I am 53 yr.old female. Married but not happily. Looking for some outside fun. Must be very discreet which by the way is a turnon. I enjoy hot oil massages, both giving and receiving. I am a bbw but that doesn't stop me from having fun and enjoying sex.

My Ideal Person Someone to talk with and relate to as well as someone who enjoys sex. But very discreet. Likes to have fun and to be honest. I am shy at first but once I have gotten to know you I am very warm and affectionate. I enjoy just sitting and talking before and after sex. I am an honest person.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
my most favourite sexual fantasy is to be on a beach, not necessarily an exotic one, with waves rushing in,a small fire, a blanket, soft music, moonlight, and nobody around for miles. The music playing softly to put us in the mood and kissing each other romantically...get hotter and more into it. Slowly removing each others clothing, until we have nothing on...then laying on the blanket and making soft, passionate but hot love....not holding back anything because there are only the two of us....

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Blindfolds, Cross Dressing, Giving Oral Sex, Handcuffs/Shackles, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Voyeurism

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
the celebrity that l have sex with is Mel Gibson...we are on a beach and l know he is only there for a brief time.....

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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